I know that what I am about to say will be hard for some to believe, but some churches have experienced conflicts among their members. These conflicts and disagreements have led to hurt feelings and, in some cases, to people leaving the church. Hard to believe, isn’t it?
I know this because on a few occasions, churches experiencing conflict have asked me to come and see if I could mediate. A few years ago, I underwent training as a church mediator. As a mediator, I am to be neutral, taking no side for or against any party. The mediator is there to listen and help people calmly discuss their concerns. Then, hopefully, help the parties work out mutually acceptable agreements. This is a very typical role for all mediators, whether working with churches, other organizations, or individuals in conflict.
In our reading today from the Apostle Paul’s letter to his spiritual son, Timothy, Paul used the term "mediator" and ascribed it to Jesus. Paul wrote, “5 For there is one God and one mediator between God and mankind, the man Christ Jesus, 6 who gave himself as a ransom for all people” (1 Timothy 2:5-6a). Right away, we see massive differences between Paul’s use of the term "mediator" and our contemporary understanding of the word.
Jesus, Paul said, is a mediator because He is between the two parties that are separated and in conflict. Jesus is between God and the people. What is the conflict? Paul wrote elsewhere, in the Book of Romans, the conflict was that the people were sinners and thus enemies of God (Romans 5:8). The conflict between God and the people was the Holiness of God, the very essence of Light, and the sin of the people, the very essence of Darkness. Paul said Jesus stands between the two as a mediator. Paul once asked, “Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?” (2 Corinthians 6:14b). Paul’s question is rhetorical. Light and darkness can have nothing to do with each other because holiness and sin can have nothing to do with each other. But Paul said, Jesus stands as a mediator between holiness and sin, between light and darkness. Jesus seems to be given an apparently impossible mediation assignment, as we understand mediation.
But, unlike today’s mediators, Jesus was different. Jesus did not stand apart from either party, God and the people. Jesus was God, and as Paul reminded Timothy, Jesus was a man. Jesus was not a neutral mediator. Jesus was part of each party, God and humanity. But Paul said that though Jesus was a man, he was without sin (2 Corinthians 5:21a). Jesus, though he came into the darkness of a sinful humanity and became a man, always remained as holy and as light. So, we see that Jesus is a very different sort of mediator because he is a member of both parties, without losing his godliness or his humanness.
I want to pause there for a moment and let us take in what Paul's words have meant so far. Jesus is divine, he is light, and he is human, and he is a mediator. When we take that in and consider the gospel accounts of Jesus’ life, we can see clearly the work Jesus was doing as a mediator. Jesus was always the light, revealing the holiness and goodness of God and God's desire to be reconciled to his people. When Jesus’ miracles and teachings were not sufficient to show his role as a man seeking to reconcile the people to God, Jesus said it directly. Jesus said, “As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world” (John 9:5). That was Jesus revealing himself as of God. Jesus then said, “I am the light of the world. Whoever follows me will never walk in darkness, but will have the light of life” (John 8:12). That was Jesus revealing that he was acting as a mediator to bring people out of the darkness of sin and into the light of God by following him. But he was not pulling God toward the people while pulling the people toward God. He was revealing the one true God so that God's power and attractiveness would draw people toward a restored relationship with God.
But there remained a problem. God’s holiness does attract people, just as humans are naturally drawn to light over darkness. And yet, the people were soiled with the darkness of sin, which must be removed before being reconciled to God. The people had no power, no ability, to remove that sin. To complete the reconciliation, Jesus, the mediator, Paul said, “gave himself as a ransom for all people” (1 Timothy 2:6a). Through the death of the man, Jesus, the mediator, on the cross, the sin of the people could be forgiven and reconciliation made complete. Paul wrote elsewhere, ”6 You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. 7 Very rarely will anyone die for a righteous person, though for a good person someone might possibly dare to die. 8 But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us…10 For while we were God’s enemies, we were reconciled to him through the death of his Son” (Romans 5:6-8, 10a). The reconciliation of God and the sinner required the ultimate expression of love, and that was the mediator to die for the sinner. This is who Jesus is as our mediator to God. This is why Jesus said, “No one comes to the Father except through me” (John 14:6b).
It is with this understanding of Jesus as our mediator, who reveals God to us, who draws us toward the goodness and holiness of God, and bridges the gap by giving his life, that Paul encourages Timothy in prayer and worship. Paul wrote, “1 I urge, then, first of all, that petitions, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for all people— 2 for kings and all those in authority, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness. 3 This is good, and pleases God our Savior, 4 who wants all people to be saved and to come to a knowledge of the truth” (1 Timothy 2:1-4). In this instruction to Timothy, Paul lays out the type of life people reconciled to God through the mediator, Jesus Christ, ought to live. Paul said a Christian’s life ought to be marked by peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness.
What does it mean to live a peaceful and quiet life? In Greek, a peaceful life is one lived free from external disturbances. In Greek, a quiet life is one lived with inner calm. Paul was describing a life marked by external and internal maturity, demonstrating great respect for others and for oneself. Paul encouraged Timothy to pray for this type of life and to live it out as a witness to others that God was indeed sovereign over the life of a Christian. This sort of life should be separated from political rancor, excesses of any kind, and having a gentle disposition. I think about some of the contemporary churches these days with elaborate worship services complete with pyrotechnical displays, and I think, how can this be reflective of a peaceful and quiet life? That seems to be a display of worldliness with its rancor and noise. I see preachers in the pulpit screaming about politics, and I cannot imagine how that helps people live a calm inner life. We need to guard ourselves so that we can live a peaceful and quiet life, both externally and inwardly.
From a peaceful and quiet life, Paul moved on and said we should be marked by godliness. What is godliness? In the original meaning, godliness is a “piety toward God.” Piety means reverence. To live a life of godliness is to be reverent toward God, one who shows a deep respect for God. How do we show reverence, respect for God? We revere God in worship. We approach worship with excitement of desire, not dread of obligation. We want to start our week singing to God, praying for one another, soaking up knowledge and understanding of God’s Word, believing that doing so weaves God throughout the entire fabric of our lives. Another way we revere God is by respecting the Scriptures. We treat the Word of God with respect, gathering wisdom and learning its truth. God’s Word is attractive to us because it reveals more of God's light. A third way we show reverence is by expressing gratitude to God. Something as simple as expressing our thankfulness for the food we eat every time we eat is a way to show reverence to God. So, in acknowledgment of Jesus as our mediator, who secures us to God, we ought to live godly lives, showing reverence for God and respect for Him.
To godliness, Paul adds that Christian lives ought to be expressed in holiness. What does it mean to live a life that shows holiness? It begins by living a life that is within the world but set apart from it. To be set apart is to live not according to the standards of contemporary culture but to live as an imitator of Christ. We show holiness in being good, just, and humble toward others. In doing so, we will be in the world and apart from it.
Allow me to give you a brief example from my life about standing apart. One time, I was at the Department of Motor Vehicles. Can you think of a place more inclined to bring out the worldliness in people than DMV? I have never been there without seeing someone angry and upset. As I arrived, there was a line, a long line, of course. I arrived to join the line about the same time as two other men. I stepped back and let the two others go ahead of me—clearly, not a worldly thing to do. The two men then got into a heated argument as to who would be next in line. Angry words were expressed, name-calling ensued, and threats were made. This is the way of the world. Neither man showed evidence of a peaceful and quiet life marked by godliness and holiness. Finally, one man, whom we will call Bruce, took the next spot, leaving the second man, whom we will call Joe, to take the position behind Bruce. Joe was not a happy man. Several minutes passed, and the line inched forward, and many more people filled in behind me. It was then that I looked down and found Bruce’s license at my feet. It had fallen on the floor in the jousting to get next in line. I picked up Bruce’s license and thought how frustrating it would be for him to finally reach the DMV agent, only to realize he no longer had it. So, I knew I should return the license to Bruce. But. There is always a but. But then it occurred to me that it might be better for Joe to return Bruce’s license. My thought was that learning to show and receive grace might be good for all of us. So, I handed Bruce’s license to Joe, still angry at Bruce for taking the next spot. I suggested to Joe that it would be a good idea for him to give the license to Bruce. Joe paused for a moment. I wasn’t sure if he would throw it on the floor or do as I suggested. With relief, Joe gave Bruce the license and let him know he had dropped it. Bruce looked shocked at Joe’s act of kindness. He thanked Joe and then offered for Joe to go ahead of him. The lesson here is that when we stand apart from the world with its anger, envy, and pride, we can see things more clearly and can use that posture of holiness to move others towards godly behavior. Paul said Christians need to display holiness by standing apart from culture and showing and teaching that God is at the center of our lives, not human competitiveness. We should seek to threaten no one.
Paul’s instruction to Timothy was that, by leading by example, he must lead the church to understand that Jesus is the mediator of life with God, made complete through Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross. From that posture of understanding, then Christians should show godliness and holiness in the way they live. Doing so reflects that our greatest need or greatest conflict in life has been resolved for us. Our mediator has resolved the conflict between a Holy God and our sinful nature, and we have fellowship with God. Everything else in life then is small in comparison. Let’s live those peaceful lives, insulating us from the world's external noise while living quiet lives, calm within, secure in the knowledge of God’s love for us. Then add to that godliness and reverence for God, and we can show holiness by living in this world, but apart from it. Amen and Amen.